Facebook, the social media site, is more than a way to stay in touch with your old friends. Actually, it’s a perfect free online dating platform where you can get to know new people – and date them! There are countless beautiful girls on Facebook.
In order to get girls interested in you on Facebook, you need to demonstrate that you are an interesting person. How do you do it? How do you get Facebook girls interested in you?
Many people underestimate the value of the Facebook profile. First of all, you can write thousands of things about you in your profile, but if you don’t have
1) pictures of you, you can forget about response from girls. But it’s not about stupid party pictures or ones that show your six-pack or biceps. Here’s what your pictures really need to demonstrate:
a) Pre-selection (You with some women shows that you already have women in your life)
b) Leader of men (You with some cool friends; no drunk pictures)
c) Protector of loved ones (You with your family… A baby on your arm is the best picture you can get)
d) Risk and Sports (You doing Sky Diving, Bungee Jumping, Surfing or other exciting sport)
e) World Citizen (Travel Pictures boost your value tremendously)
2) Be careful with the information you put in your Facebook profile. Actually, too much information in your profile is counterproductive as it scares girls off and comes across as feedback-orientated (= needy). Facebook girls like the most girls are attracted to guys with a strong personality.
You have to realize: the more information you put in your Facebook profile, the higher the likeliness that the girl who’s reading – if she reads it at all – will notice how different you are.
And normally, it’s not a good thing – it’s the similarities that provoke interest in people. By putting too much information in your Facebook profile, you only limit the number of girls who could be interested in you.
Every girl wants to see in your profile her next boyfriend – so don’t scare her off and give her a chance. This doesn’t mean you should leave all the fields blank. It’s about the small hints that leave her wondering about you.
3) The way you communicate is crucial. If “I like your smile”, “Believe me – you’re the most beautiful girl on facebook” or a cheesy copy-pasted poem is all you can think of after you “poke” a girl, your game is weak – and you are one of the countless guys that only demonstrate her that they only want to get into her pants.
Here’s a small tip: never start a conversation with a compliment! On the other hand, be careful with David DeAngelo’s cocky and funny stuff.
What you really need to do in the end is creating rapport – to do so you need to find similarities, a connection with her. Find out what she likes and relate to it – this way you’re creating a feeling of commonality and safety. And this is what she really needs to go on a date with you.
If you need concrete tips what and how exactly to improve your Facebook profile, what to say aso., there is a brand-new (Year 2008) 224-page e-book called The Online Game that I can recommend.
It has all the information you need to succeed in online game. I personally love the priceless technique that makes her think that meeting up with you was actually her idea (page 72-73).
P.S. “Is that really you in the profile picture?” will guarantee you a response. Just try it! 🙂